Current mood: exhausted
Wow! What a weekend. I am just now able to finally write a blog about it. Its 9pm and already I am ready for bed. So without any more delay... lets get started! haha
Going to the California Strawberry Festival (in Oxnard) has always been a childhood tradition of mine. Since I moved out of Oxnard (when I was 18) I have only been there once .. maaaaybe twice since. The last time it was 2003 and my second oldest niece Sarah (who is currently 7) was younger than what Mia is now! WOW!
So what made me decide to go this year was one thing... haha no not strawberries though they do have some pretty tasty strawberries. It was MIA! I wanted her to experience the Strawberry festival, plus I knew she LOVES her strawberries.
So I really got into the spirit about going. I even bought Mia a little strawberry costume so she could walk around as a strawberry! haha I counted down the weeks and finally the big weekend came!!!
Adrian was able to work from home, Friday night so we got a early jump on the road on Saturday. We had alot planned. We were going to drive up to my parents house Sat. rest a bit, then head over to my brother's house so we could give him and my sis-in-law their joint birthday present we had. We were planning on hitting up the festival on Sunday and leaving back home shortly after. Well things don't always go as planned and this weekend was the biggest proof of that... EVER!
Once we got on the road Mia decided she was NOT going to take a nap. Uh-oh! Although she was pretty good most of the way she did get bored so we had to stuff her up on snacks and turn on her DVD player. We were making pretty good time until we hit the 134 (a mid way point in the trip) thats when we hit the WORST traffic EVER!!!!! Not to mention it was HOT outside. Luckily, Mia and I were dressed in shorts and tank tops so we didn't fry to much in the car. The traffic was horrid!!! Stop and go... stop and go. I was beginning to feel alittle queasy and Mia was not happy.
Then the worst thing happened! We almost got into a accident. The car ahead of use decided... for no reason at all... to slam on his breaks and come to a complete stop!!! We had been in traffic so long and the heat our own breaks were not breaking as well and we literally came within inches of hitting him. My car's ABS kicked on and the seat belts locked up. As we all leaned forward the seat belt hurt my baby tummy BAD!! It literally felt like someone had kicked or hit me right where the baby is. I started to get panicky since I started to feel alot of pain down there. I was afraid something bad might happen. All I wanted to go is get off the car!!!! but we were in horrible traffic with no place to turn off.
Eventually the traffic lightened up but thats about the time I started to feel sharp pains and cramps in my stomach. That worried me, but we were less than 20 miles from my parents house so we trecked on. Sure enough we hit another massive traffic jam all down the Conejo grade! I was getting upset by this time. The 101 was a mess all through Camarillo. Eventually we agreed to stop at the next available stop just to end the madness for awhile and rest.
So we pulled off on Rose Ave. (Oxnard) and turned into a Best Buy parking lot. It took us over 4 hours to get to Oxnard!! It usually takes us 2! Even from San Diego it only takes us 3, so ya it was awful. Once we all got off the car we noticed how FREEZING Oxnard was!!! Good grief!!! Adrian and I had not packed any jackets or sweatshirts for ourselves so we froze. Luckily I packed Mia a jacket. When I got off the car a massive pain hit my stomach. It was all to familiar to me... yup ligament pain! The exact same horrible pain I would get with Mia if I sat down to long. So I limped into the store and we rested a bit and caught our breath. Mia got to stretch her legs a bit and run around. Once we were feeling better (and my stomach was feeling much better by then) we got back into the car.
We knew that if we took Rose all the way down to my parents house we would hit another bad traffic spot since the Strawberry festival is just down the road a bit from my parents house. So we took another long road. I was still upset and not feeling so well in the car so Adrian decided to treat me to Win's!!! for a banana shake, something I have been craving for months now!! We found the place and he got off to go buy it. My head was pounding from a horrible headache but the shake did help a bit.
Finally we made it home to my parents house. Exhausted from our trip we rested a bit while Mia went nuts running around the house. She acted shy with my Dad for the first time in a LOOONG time but she eventually warmed up like always. I rested and tried to kick my headache but was being unsuccessful. It started to get later and later and we still needed to go to my Brother's house to give him his gift. So we left Mia (who didn't nap ALL day) with my parents while Adrian and I headed to my bro's house. His present was we were going to upgrade their outdated computer but instead of doing it there since it was so late .... we were just going to stop by, pick up his computer, upgrade it at my parents house over night then drop it back off after the festival.
We got to my bro's house and rested again. It was great to visit for a bit and my nieces went nuts when they saw us again. (Always a treat). I couldn't completely relax though, along with my pounding head I was worried about Mia. I just had a feeling if we left her to long she would eventually get into a bad mood from not napping and I didn't want to have my parents have to deal with that. So we got their computer and headed back to my parents house. It was already past 9pm by then!
Once we got back to the house we put Mia (who was running around playing like crazy) to bed in my old room. Adrian stayed with her until she fell asleep then came back out to work on my bro's computer. I visited a bit with my parents then went to bed on the couch. Adrian worked on my bro's computer until 3am then went to share the bed with Mia in my old room.
We all got up about 9am the next day. I was having bad ligament pain though out the night so I didn't sleep to well. Around 3am at night I also got this horrible pain in the pit of my stomach that would sometimes wrap around the entire baby tummy. It was awful and refused to go away!! We wanted to hit the festival early but everything seemed to be going wrong. The big thing was my stomach ache, we tried to wait it out a bit but it never got better. The time kept ticking an ticking away. Eventually we tried to get Mia to take a nap but she refused, when she did finally fall asleep we had to wake her up 20 mins later because we had to go. It was getting so late that the festival was going to close soon!! When Mia woke up she was NOT happy and was pretty moody. Eventually she cheered up. I got her dressed in shorts and a tank. I didn't pack any warm clothes for her because I thought it would be HOT like it is where we live. Unfortunately it was COLD! My brother stopped by with 3 of his girls and along with my parents we left to the festival.
It was PACKED and no way we could even get any parking near the festival so we ended up having to park in the neighborhoods and WALK! Poor Adrian couldn't get a parking spot and dropped me off so so I could be with my family while he found a spot. We walked and walked FOREVER to get to the festival. My stomach ache was killing me but I refused to give up! This trip turned into a quest and I was determined to have Mia experience the Strawberry Festival!
Like I mentioned before, I had not been to the festival in about 6 years and so much had changed! The big thing was the people! It was so heavily crowded you could barely move!!!! My Dad pushed Mia around and Adrian (who later caught up with us) helped me along. Eventually we found the "Make your own Strawberry Shortcake" tent (its a tradition for my family to get one of these) I have been waiting weeks and weeks for this moment but unfortunately was in to much pain to eat!!! NOOOOO!!! So I watched while everyone got to enjoy their shortcake. Adrian shared with me but after a few bites my stomach hurt more so I couldn't eat. However, what did make me happy was seeing Mia go nuts over it!! She munched on so many little strawberries and loved the whipped cream! Soon she was a big sticky cute mess!!
After that we managed to find some place to sit. My brother, my Dad and Adrian all took turns buying some food and bringing it back for all of us. We all hung out for a bit there. Mia danced in her stroller to the live band and played with her cousin Sarah who kept making her laugh by playing with Mia's hat. Mia's cousin April was chowing down on a corn on the cob that was almost bigger than her!! and her cousin Tracy ate 4 of those corns! (a record)!! I tried so hard to enjoy myself but my stomach pain was preventing that. Soon it really started to get COLD! and since I was dressed in a tank top with no jacket I started to freeze. I put Mia's jacket on her and tried to keep her as warm as I could but I noticed goose bumps on her too so I knew she was cold as well. Thats when I decided to just throw in the towel. As much as I didn't want to since everyone was having a good time I just had to think about my kids. My Mia was freezing and my baby was hurting in my stomach. I was sad we never got to explore the entire festival or let Mia run around in her strawberry costume but thats the way it sometimes goes.
So we all packed up and headed back to the cars. I did manage to take home a little cup full of strawberries because after all we had been through I REFUSED to go back home without strawberries! haha
Once we got back to my parents house I let Mia run around a bit in her costume then put some warm jammies on her. We visited a bit then headed off to my brother's house to drop off his computer. We said our sad goodbyes to my parents then drove across town.
Once we got to my brother's house my stomach was still hurting really bad. We rested and visited a bit then surprised them with all the upgrades we had done to their computer! They were so shocked and so very happy. Meanwhile, Mia was having a blast with her cousins. Her cousin Sarah was pushing her around on a little lion shaped car and her cousin Tracy was jumping around making her laugh so hard!!! Eventually Mia went with her cousin April and they both watched Yo Gabba Gabba together in the living room. It was so cute to see the cousins all hanging out. It started to get late and Mia was turning into a walking zombie so we decided to hit the road and head back home. We said our sad goodbyes there and off we went.
We made it home a couple of hours later and Mia slept the entire time. Once we got home I immediately felt a horrible pain again. Yep my ligament pain kicked in BAD! I limped into the house while Adrian took Mia off the car. She was UPSET that she was woken up so we just put her back to bed. By then it was almost 1am. I went to bed soon after and knocked out for the night.
Phew what a weekend. I am still feeling it!! I am so very tired. Though my stomach ache went away today the ligament pain is still here. My hips hurt alot and sometimes I get really stiff. But overall we made it and conquered the strawberry festival!!!